Safety
Public place. Quick check. If it feels weird, leave.
Keep it public, keep it calm, and leave if something feels off.
Public meetup spotBring backup if neededWalking away is allowed
Meetup basics
The safest meetup is a boring meetup
Public place, normal time, quick item check, done. Boring is good here.
Meet in a public place in daytime when possible.
Bring backup if you are young or unsure.
If it gets weird, you can leave.